Lmao. Mr., I apologize. I can't answer this question. Definitely not for me, and honestly, I can't even see this tweet.
I am going to be a bridesmaid. Again.
For my girl, Toleen, I performed this bridal thing for the first and last time (or so I thought). merely because she was the one. I have a long history with Toleen, and she was the only one who could persuade me. The story is lengthy, but I'm still shocked that I agreed to serve as a bridesmaid once more.
People change. I am people.
Weddings are not exactly my thing. They bring to mind one of the things I fear the most. Two individuals choosing to love one another every day, in the same home, rain or shine, for the rest of their lives, Omo. Don't get me started.
I am a part of another wedding party, and the last time it happened, it was exactly like a movie. All I know is that I paid, packed my bags, and traveled miles to support my darling girl. Simply because it wasn't my thing, I didn't engage in as much conversation with the other women. Maybe I can do better and try to mingle this time around.
I'm doing my best because paying sixty thousand naira for an Abuja wedding is no small feat. The women are showing up ready. The preparations are in full swing, and Favour won't be carrying last. Yes! Sixty thousand naira is not a joke, but have you seen the price of making aso-ebi dresses?
It almost seems like nobody tells me about these things. Do you now understand why I continue to stay in my lane?
40K to sew cloth? One simple style So if I want to sew for my anniversary...
Why?
Don’t ask me if I paid the 40k or not. I am not in the mood at this point. This wedding will happen big time, and I am not taking it easy. For anyone who decides not to engage or lavish me with praises when I post the pictures, prepare to unfollow me.
The occasion for the season is this wedding. This wedding is where I get to show up, show out, dance the night away, eat, be merry, and assist the others in giving the lovely couple a time of their lives because if I am paying 60k for Aso-ebi, best believe I am coming to live my best life and enjoy myself at that wedding, and that includes bringing husband home.
This Asoebi culture is not for the weak, and we are certainly at the age where we have weddings all around.
You are entitled to bringing a man home after all the expenses incurred. Just say to your preferred “Arise and come with me” 😂.
Anyway, get ready!
Gosh this is me rn. Like now, now. I have a headache. My brother is getting married soon and I’m not a social butterfly. Merely thinking about being in a social event gives me a nasty headache.
My parents are already telling me ahead of time to please corporate and be cheerful. My sisters are already doing silent competition of who’ll be best dressed. I’m here trying to pick a simple style. The money for cloth, shoe, bag and hair is making me go crazy 🥲😂.
Sigh. Things we do for love right..